This is about my experience of relationship with my female friends. It is hard to say how women sometimes try to go beyond normal relationship. I was aware that living in a place where gay and lesbian rights are well protested would be a good place to observe how so-believed heterosexual women do change their habit for an adventure. Indeed, I tried to work on a research to see what circumstances a woman try a new relationship. I have been to gay/lesbian bars around Castro Street with my friends on Halloween. However, I did not visit these bars in any other occasion nor had any sexual relationship for real experiment. One time, my female friend and I got drunk at my home and we slept on my bed. However, when I woke up, I figured out I had my clothes on as I went to bed in the previous day. My friend is not a lesbian, but I remembered her talking to try something as we were good friends when I changed my clothes to PJ and went to bed. Here is a list I thought about the circumstances. Again, this is from my experiences and I have not conducted an official research. Before I get a status to do so, the school kicked me out...
When a woman says “yes” to have a lesbian relationship:
Alcohol and other stimuli would ease to across the norm.
If they know each other quite well and have certain trust to each other, lesbian relationship might be considered as a type of secret they share as other good memories.
One of the woman has liberal view about sexuality, it might be considered as an experiment.
One of the woman is / is thought as a lesbian, the sexual relationship might be considerable as an experiment.
A woman has a bad time with her boy friend, having lesbian relationship might be a safe alternative relationship than cheating with another man.
If a woman has a passive behavior, she might follow a woman who is a “master” type. This is often discussed in criminology; a person with dominative characteristics dominates a submissive person. i.e. The Hillside Strangler – the murderer's cousin was submissive.
A woman has low self-esteem and seeking some way to express herself.
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